Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Figuring out what love is.


Not sure about others, for me it is close to denying myself and seeking to meet my beloved's needs.

Does she know you love him when you say you do, or maybe she feels loved by the actions more?

LOve is what your partner prefers and not you. However! If the partner feels your desire notto do something loving and notices that you are doing it for the sake of doing it, you would rather NOT do it.

Spending time with each other. Even if it is a long distance thing. However far. If you are on a date BE with the partner, if you are chatting, close all the other windows on the computer. Make the partner feel that you are available in that point in time and s/he can share anything with you.

Puh Lease be honest. The truth need not be positive. Respect your partner by being truthful even if it is about each others weaknesses or strengths.

Whatever your partner's needs be, that is what you should be doing to love him or her.

The moment you start insisting on your way or doing what YOU want, you stop showing love to your spouse.

Say whatever is true,and if the truth does not please the partner,let the partner let you go.


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